GUEST POST: 5 Excellent Books to Read for Career Success

When college students graduate, after four years of intense reading and writing, the last thing they want to do is pick up a book.

In fact, many students never pick up a book again, which can be detrimental to their post-grad career. There are plenty of books written about career advancement and how to survive after college, many of which can offer advice and inspiration to college graduates trying to find their way in the real world.

 Here are 5 books new grads should read for career success:


1. What Color is Your Parachute by Richard N. Bolles
It’s not a book about jumping out of an airplane (the appropriate title for that would be God, I Hope I Have My Parachute), but instead it’s about developing goals and learning about what your strengths and weaknesses are. It’s almost like a career journal. The best part is that it’s time-tested: It’s been helping college graduates for more than 40 years, coming out with new editions annually.


2. What Should I Do With My Life
by Po Bronson
Whoa. Kind of a heavy question for a book title. But the cool thing about this book is that, through individual stories, it helps readers understand that not everyone knows exactly what they want to do fresh out of college or high school. Sometimes, it’s just life experience that shapes people and how they get to where they are.


3. Never Eat Alone
by Keith Ferrazzi
One thing your college or university might not teach you is how to network. They educate you in the ways of book-smarts and facts, but when it comes to having relationships with people, that’s not always on the agenda. This book is out to supplement that education.


4. Do What You Are
by Paul D. Tieger and Barbara Barron-Tieger
If you like taking personality tests and quizzes, then this is the book for you. Do What You Are’s aim is to help people identify their personality types and from there discover what jobs for which they may be suited.


5. Oh, The Places You’ll Go!
by Dr. Seuss
Sure, it’s a children’s book, but it offers a lot of amazing adult advice (plus, it’s short!). What’s written can be applied to most any career situation, and it also helps post-grads get out of the “college bubble” their university often unintentionally puts them in.

Wherever you fly, you’ll be best of the best.

Wherever you go, you will top all the rest.

Except when you don’t.

Because, sometimes, you won’t.

It’s good to humble yourself and remember that when you graduate, there are thousands of college graduates in the same boat out there, vying for the same entry-level positions as you.

Not all of a college graduate’s career questions will be answered in a book, but continuing to read and educate yourself after graduation helps propel you in the right direction toward self-discovery. Remember, that after college, the educational journey isn’t over—it’s never over.

Megan McLachlan writes for Criminal Justice Degree Schools, a career and education resource for individuals interested in getting started in a criminal justice career and featuring interviews with law enforcement professionals and school reviews by students.

GUEST POST: LPN Graduate. Now What?


Don’t mess with nurses! Carla is gettin’ real tired of your crap. #Scrubs

Being a licensed practical nurse (LPN) is not as limiting as you might think.  While registered nurses are still on the top tier for pay and employment opportunities, an LPN can still enjoy a wide spectrum of employment opportunities other than the traditional bedside stereotype.

In the US, jobs for LPNs are expected to grow by as much as 25% within the next six years as aging baby boomers begin to require more and more medical services. Perhaps you are about to finish your certification, maybe you already have it completed or, you could just be thinking about the possibilities that exist in this career path. Here are some options available to LPNs that might not have crossed your mind.
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GUEST POST: Underemployed can lead to overjoyed


After graduating from the University of Texas at Austin with honors in only 2 1/2 years, Toni immediately entered graduate school in the Fall of 2011. After only 3 semesters, she graduated again with a Master of Arts in Education, concentration early and elementary education with a specialization in child development.

I thought I would be underemployed forever. Well not forever, but at least for a few years.

When I graduated from undergraduate I immediately started graduate school, so I just took a job as an intern at an investment bank because I could do my readings and such at work and still get paid. This was working well for me until I realized that I needed to actually have some experience in the education field before anyone would accept me into an education doctoral program. Then came the job search…

So here I was looking for a job, an honor graduate from the freaking University of Texas at Austin, almost finished with a Master’s degree in education and I was having a ridiculously hard time finding a job that I was qualified for. I was turned down for a director of a day care position, assistant director, preschool teacher, admissions representative, etc. etc.

While I was in the middle of my unsuccessful job search one of my classmates from graduate school suggested that I work on an alternative teaching certificate, take a job as an “instructional assistant”, and possibly start teaching the next school year, if everything went well.

Long story short, everything went well. The principal loved me with the children and when a teaching position became available she interviewed and asked HR to offer me the job.

But before that job offer came no less than 35 applications submitted online at various school districts, daycares, preschools, private schools, career colleges, basically anywhere that had anything to do with education.

Moral of the story: Your resume can only take you so far. Who you know matters. If you can get in the door and “show them what you got”, go for it! Impressing your boss now in a job you are just settling for can mean landing that job you’ve always wanted in the future.

- Toni

GUEST POST: Marabeth’s advice to college students + grads.

Evelyn’s note: Marabeth shared her post-college story with us, and I agree with her – this is a time of choices and freedom. We can do anything we set our minds to. Roadblocks in our way? Of course. Disproportionate ratio of haters to motivators? Probably. But we’re worth the hard work it takes to keep going.

Here, Marabeth provides some guidance to college students and those of us who’ve crossed the finish line. Be warned: all of this is spot on, in my experience.


shout out to stock photography. celebrating awkward forced diversity! lol

IF YOU’RE STILL IN COLLEGE:

  1. Don’t fool yourself into thinking that your grades are top priority. Yes, they matter, but volunteering, internships, your social life, and traveling are just as important. You have to have some experiences to put on your resume besides “Summa cum laude”.
  2. If you’re unsure of your major, find a way to spend some time with someone who is employed in the job your degree leads toward. You may love your classes and then later find out that you hate the realities of the job.
  3. If you realize you are in the wrong degree, switch. Even if it’s just the difference between a BM in Music Ed. and a BA in Music. Don’t just suffer through it to graduate “on time”.
  4. College is expensive. Make sure you really want to invest your time and future hard-earned cash before you spend it. A gap year, or a break after finishing your basics can be a really good idea.
  5. Listen to your heart. Then tell it that college won’t last forever! Ask yourself what you do when you’re procrastinating – that’s probably the area of work you should make a career of.

IF YOU’RE OUT OF COLLEGE:

  1. Don’t give up on your dreams just because they are not immediate money-makers. If you need to get a temporary job, do it- but don’t let yourself forget that it’s temporary! Make time to build the skills you need to make your dream your future occupation.
  2. Life has changed in a big way. Admit it, then give yourself time to explore your options and your new reality, and to make friends. No one is telling you what to do next anymore, so you don’t have to have all the answers immediately.
  3. Use positive self-talk and don’t get stuck in the woulda-coulda-shoulda. It doesn’t do you or anyone else any good to berate yourself for past mistakes. They are in the past, you learned from them, and today is a new day to try things a new way.
  4. Search for opportunities and apply. Don’t remove yourself from the race before entering it. Sometimes you might see an opportunity and think, “There’s too much competition,” or “I’m not experienced enough,” and be tempted to just skip it, but you don’t really know until you try!
  5. Keep your chin up! Your best days are not behind you! They are still to come!

Pass this on to your friends, and use it to drop some knowledge on the ones just starting college as well! What do you know now that you wish you knew then? Share it with us!

GUEST POST: the post-college life of Marabeth

Evelyn’s note: I went to high school with Marabeth and her husband Ian. In this post, Marabeth will share her story. She’s comin’ from a different set of experiences than me (married! moved across the country! wants to do music!), so hopefully she’ll help someone out there in the same situation. Thanks Marabeth! We’re rooting for you! And if any of you want to contribute to this blog, email me.


Ian, Marabeth, and Dad.

“You’ve got this pearl of a decade in front of you: THE TWENTIES. This is the prime of your life! You’ve been on a straight educational path since you learned to tie your shoes, and now suddenly you’ve got a diploma, enough energy to run the length of the globe, and all of the freedom in the world. So how are you going to spend the glorious days of your independent youth?”

From Delaying the Real World by Colleen Kinder

Who am I?
Good question, I’ve been wondering that myself lately. But let’s start with the facts. I’m 21. I just graduated from Abilene Christian University a month ago with a degree in Vocal Music Education. I’ve been married for a year to my high school sweetheart, Ian, who got a crazy awesome software development job in Washington before he even graduated. We walked the stage, then moved across the country the next day.

What did I do in college?
Well, I was planning to be a journalism major. Then, as a high school graduation present my grandma sent me on a tour of Italy with the Lipscomb University choir, as they needed some extra singers and I love to sing. We were touring Rome, when, in the Pantheon the director started a song out of the blue. We all joined in, and the usually bustling crowd slowed around us and everyone just stopped and listened. It gave me chill bumps  – it was amazing. After that, I knew music was my calling and my passion, so I majored in it.

Unfortunately, the only practical way with a charted path to create an income out of music is to teach in the public schools, thus the education component of the degree. Around junior year, I realized that teaching in a public school setting was not for me.

At the same time, I also wanted to get married, which meant that I needed to get out of school ASAP. So, I decided to cram a 4.5 year degree plan into 4 years. That was stressful, and there were so many days that I was pretty sure I couldn’t do it. On top of that, my school only focused on classical music, and I really wanted to branch out. My private lesson teacher actually kicked me out of her studio because I joined the Vocal Jazz Ensemble. I was frustrated and felt trapped in the degree (student teaching was looming ahead), but I decided to push through.

Student teaching didn’t go so well. In fact, I didn’t finish. I won’t go into that whole story, but to be honest, I was relieved once it was over. I had quickly found that teaching music to forty 1st graders at one time was more about crowd control and cute Texas-themed programs for the parents than about really connecting with the students and encouraging their musical inclinations.

I’m not saying that’s how it has to be or how it should be, but given the budget crunch and the state of public school right now, it’s the sad reality. The natural (but unforeseen) consequence of my race to walk the stage is that I now have a degree that I don’t want to use for what it was intended for.

So, what am I doing now?
Like I said, we just moved across the country. So honestly, I’ve spent a good portion of the last month unpacking boxes and exploring my new area. I’m also finding the gorgeous scenery up here a welcome change from the dusty plains of Abilene, TX. Continue reading

GUEST POST: Living at home does not make you a loser.

There. I said it. Now we can all move on with our lives.

Hi, my name is Timi. I’m a 23 year old teacher, and I live with my parents. 

…You still there? What, no laughter? No judgment? Oh, that’s right. I’m in the same position as 85% of young Americans. I’m not ashamed of it anymore, but I once was.


google search “living at home” = this photo. HAHAHAH!

When I first moved back to my hometown for work, I was dragging my feet the entire way. I love my family, and I’d missed them while I was gone, but I was not ready to co-habitate with them again. Honestly, I had lived by myself for the past year and enjoyed the opportunity to live in solitude and do whatever I pleased. So to me, moving back home initially seemed like a tying a leash around my neck. Dramatic, I know. Continue reading

GUEST POST: I just graduated!!


amazing photo by the very talented Moyo Oyelola

Evelyn originally asked me to write a “I’m about to graduate” post, but I hope she accepts this “I just graduated” post.

Why didn’t I write a “I’m about to graduate” post? Because I couldn’t.

The week before graduation was a roller coaster ride, carrying me through a rush of excitement and emotions that led me to buy a $218 dress* (yes that’s how much the dress cost, Evelyn. And don’t worry guys, I returned it) to a fearful numbness that made me literally incapable of doing anything for periods of time and made me feel like I was constantly near tears. My feelings about graduation changed so much from hour to hour, that trying to sit down and write it all down was impossible.

I’d spent the month before graduation in a calm acceptance with some mild excitement. And then suddenly it hit me one fateful night as I was once again responding to the question Continue reading

GUEST POST: You have to start somewhere.

Hey, I’m Brittainy. I’m 23 and I currently reside in Chicago, but I hail from St. Louis (*whispers* STL 314!) I graduated from Northwestern University last Spring and now I work for a network of all boys’ schools. (I won’t mention the name because I’m not tryna pop up on our Google Alerts).

So you have your first real-world job. Congrats! But it’s in a real estate office when your major was psychology, and your boss is the real life version of J’s boss from Awkward Black Girl?

Or you have a job you actually enjoy, working with people you like, making good money. But what you really want to do is go into fashion design.

Or maybe you have no job and no prospects whatsoever.

Do not panic. Do not create a profile at SugarDaddy.com.

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GUEST POST: I didn’t get a job in my major.

While sitting in the doctor’s office, waiting for over an hour for the receptionist to even take my insurance card, I had a chance to reassess my life choices.  Thus…this article.

I will change the world!

Hi, I’m Victoria Obioma. UT Austin class of 2010 (2011…if you want to get technical). I’m 22, have done shiz tons of internships, held a 3.5 GPA at a top tier university, graduated in three years. All that, and the job that currently employs me only requires that one has a GED. Yep. 75k in student loans at an average 6% interest rate for a job answering phones. Continue reading